The letter of St. Paul to Titus is one of the so-called “pastoral epistles.” It deals with practical matters with which pastors should concern themselves. It includes “household codes” to guide family relations. These codes are standard for Roman society, and hence can sound odd to modern ears. For example, the epistle advises that younger women should “be under the control of their husbands.” The point the Apostle makes which is still remain relevant despite societal changes is that being a Christian does not require separating oneself from society. The Church is not a cult. Rather in the midst of society we are a leaven, meant to model to everyone how the gospel transforms family relationships from obligation to mutual respect, forbearance and love.
